New Life United Methodist Church, Grant, Alabama
Rev. Kim Scites
June 27, 2009
Changes in Attitudes
Genesis 12:1-5

1 The LORD had said to Abram, "Go from your country, your people and your father's household to the land I will show you.

2 "I will make you into a great nation,
       and I will bless you;
       I will make your name great,
       and you will be a blessing.

3 I will bless those who bless you,
       and whoever curses you I will curse;
       and all peoples on earth
       will be blessed through you."

4 So Abram went, as the LORD had told him; and Lot went with him. Abram was seventy-five years old when he set out from Harran . 5 He took his wife Sarai, his nephew Lot, all the possessions they had accumulated and the people they had acquired in Harran, and they set out for the land of Canaan , and they arrived there.

 

I don’t like change.  My family will tell you that even if the change doesn’t matter, I still don’t like it.  If we say we’re leaving at 9 o’clock, leaving at 9:15 ruins my morning.  When I travel, I take my own three little pillows with me, bc I already know how I like my pillows and I don’t want to change them, even for one night.  If we’ve always kept the soap on the left side of the sink, put it back there after you clean the sink.  Why would you change that?!  Just last week, after nearly 23 years of marriage, I again tried to sign my name Kimberly J. Zimmerman instead of my married name Scites.  Change is hard for me. 

 

And it seems that change is hard for the church, too.  You can’t be with a group of church people for too long until one of them says, “Well we’ve never done it that way before.”  That’s the second phrase most of us learn in church speak 101.  First we learn, “Jesus saves!”  And then, “We’ve never done it that way before.”

 

It only took the Roman church about 400 years and Vatican II before some of the changes that Luther and the other reformers wanted to see finally happened.  400 years to get just part of it done.  I think we can safely say the church does not like change either!

 

One preacher told me that the only people who do like change are wet babies, but my life as a mother tells me that even they don’t like it too much. 

 

So what must it have been like for Abram to hear these words:  "Go from your country, your people and your father's household to the land I will show you.”?

 

God says, “Go and it’ll be good for you.”  But all I would have heard was change. 

 

You want what?!  You want me to leave what I know and what I like?  You want me to leave my three pillows and my soap on the left?  You want me to move away from daddy?  No way.  You gotta be kidding!

 

And can you imagine Abram explaining all this to the beautiful Sarai?  The Bible doesn’t say one word about God telling Sarai about this little move.  I think even God’s afraid to tell her.  So God makes Abe do that!   

 

Baby, would you save those boxes?  We’re gonna need to start packing a few things.  God told me we’re moving.  Again. 

 

I can just hear her now… What are you talking about?!  Where exactly are we going?  Why would we leave this place?  We’ve already moved once.  And if you think I’m going on another desert camel ride with your 75-yr-old self, well… you’ve been out in the sun too long!

 

I think Abram and Sarai were just like us.  They were settled and comfortable.  They had their little routines – their gym memberships – their favorite coffee shops – Sonic on Tuesday night when the burgers are cheap.  They knew all their neighbors and all their neighbors knew them.  True, Abe and Sarai weren’t tied down with kids, but they were still settled.  Dug in. 

 

I don’t think this move – this change – was any easier for them than it would be for us. 

 

But that’s sort of hidden in this story that’s written so simply there is no detail or struggle or doubt.  In the first 3 verses God just says, go to a land I will show you.  It’ll be good for you and good for others.  And v 4 says simply, So Abram went as the Lord had told him. 

 

What happened between v 3 and v 4?  Anything, you think?  How much time elapsed?  How many arguments filled that gap?  How many more times did God say go before Abram actually went?  V 1 says the Lord had said to Abram.  So it was a while before Abram went.     

 

But the story doesn’t tell give us those details, I guess because none of that really matters.  All that matters is that Abram finally mustered up enough courage – enough faith – enough trust – to go. 

 

Not knowing quite where he was going.  Taking only his wife, a nephew who maybe was sort of like a son to them, their stuff and their servants.  It was a long, long time before Abram and Sarai realized that God went with them, too. 

 

No, I don’t like changes, but I also know that God specializes in them. 

 

God took Abram, this childless idol worshipper (Joshua 24:2), and made him into a pillar of faith and the father of God’s people.  God took Moses, who stuttered, and made him ‘powerful in speech and action’ (Acts 7:22 tells us).  God changed David the shepherd boy into a king.  Peter the weak into Peter the rock.  John the Son of Thunder into the Apostle of Love.  Paul, the persecutor, into a missionary and martyr.  And God took the crucified Christ and raised him from the dead. 

 

In every case – God called.  In every case, God offered a choice – a change – a different path to take.  And when these faithful stepped forward with God, God changed them.  Blessed them.  Made it good for them, and good for others. 

 

In each case, they took God’s new path.

 

If we always do what we’ve always done, we’ll always be just what we are.  But with God, things can be different.  I don’t like change, but neither do I want to stay like I am today.  I want to grow – to change – to become all that God created me to be.  And the liberating message of this story – and of so many stories of our faith – is that

 

You don’t have to be like you’ve always been.

You don’t have to live like you’ve always lived.

You don’t have to stay where you are!

With God, nothing remains quite the same. 

 

God gives us a choice.  Instead of just being dissatisfied or anxious or unsettled about our lives, what if we listened for God, and dared to do what God says.  Dared to go when God says go.  Dared to speak when God says speak.  Dared to move and change and try something different or new.    

 

In this story, it’s clear that God will do the work.  God will make the nation.  God will make the name.  God will bless.  God will protect.  And God will turn that blessing into blessing for others.  God does the work. 

 

All that depends on us is the going.  So, verse 4 says, Abram went as the Lord had told him.  And oh, the blessings that came from that!  That even we should be called children of God.  Amazing.  We here today are proof of God’s promise to Abram.  Blessed to be a blessing. 

God is calling some of you today.  Some from comfortable places into new ministries and mission.  Some God is calling from painful places into a new and fruitful land. 

Whatever God’s call to you, we always have our excuses.  Our doubts.  Our own schedules.  Our own resistance to change. 

We worry about our marriages, our children, our finances, our friends, our health.   We’re afraid of the future and yet we keep doing the same stuff we’ve been doing?  The same way we’ve been doing it?  That is one definition of insanity:  to keep doing things the same way, yet expecting a different outcome. 

 

But what if God is asking you to…

Work on your marriage

Make a new start

Spend more time with your kids

Serve on the mission field?

 

What if God is asking you this time to

Followed thru

Kick a habit

Get the treatment

Confess your sin

Face a fear

Be honest with yourself

Or gave it one more chance

 

Is God asking you to dare to believe that God really is calling you

and that now really is finally the time to answer? 

 

What if God is asking you to

Believe in yourself

And believe in Him. 

 

What if God is asking you to

Take the next step

Let go

Love – in spite of past hurts

 

What if God is asking you to

Say you’re sorry

Not look back

Give more

Reach out

and reach up

 

What if you lived the life God has for you?  All of it.  Finally.  Oh!  It’d be so good for you.  And so good for others.  Because that’s always how God works it.  Blessed to be a blessing.  Changed – for the better. 

 

What are you holding on to that God wants to change?

 

Every one of us has things we’ve left behind, and places where God has changed our lives.  Every one of us.  Here are some of the ways God has brought newness and healing and hope to some people you may know:

 

 – Brandon Heath I’m Not Who I Was